Pentingnya Rasa Malu
Malu adalah salah satu sifat manusia yang menjadikan manusia tidak enak melaukan sesuatu yang dibenci/ terlarang baginya.
Dari Abu Mas’ûd ‘Uqbah bin ‘Amr al-Anshârî al-Badri radhiyallâhu ‘anhu ia berkata, “Rasulullah Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda, ‘Sesungguhnya salah satu perkara yang telah diketahui oleh manusia dari kalimat kenabian terdahulu adalah, ‘Jika engkau tidak malu, berbuatlah sesukamu.’” (Riwayat Bukhori)
Malu meruakan tameng/ benteng manusia dari kejahatan. Maka dari itu, apa bila malu telah hilang dari diri manusia apalagi kaum, maka telah rusaklah manusia atau kaum tersebut.
Rasulullah SAW : "Kiamat tidak akan terjadi sampai rasa malu telah lenyap dari anak-anak dan perempuan." (Bihar Al-Anwar, cetakan baru, jilid VI, hal.315)
Diriwayatkan dari Imam Ja’far Ash-Shadiq as bahwasanya beliau berkata, "Rasa malu itu ada sepuluh bagian. Sembilan bagian di antaranya ada pada perempuan, dan yang satu bagian ada pada kaum laki-laki. Jika perempuan sudah mulai haid, hilang satu bagian rasa malunya. Jika dia sudah menikah, hilang lagi satu bagian; jika dia sudah digauli hilang satu bagian lagi; dan jika melahirkan hilang lagi satu bagian. Sehingga rasa malunya hanya tinggal lima bagian. Dan jika dia menyimpang, maka rasa malu itu akan hilang semuanya. Tetapi bila tingkah lakunya baik, maka rasa malu itu masih akan tersisa lima bagian." (Bihar Al-Anwar, jilid VI, cetakan baru, hal. 244).
Imam Al-Baqir as mengatakan, "Rasa malu dan iman adalah dua hal yang dihubungkan oleh suatu poros. Jika salah satu di antaranya hilang, maka yang lain akan mengikutinya."
Sedangkan Imam Ja’far Ash-Shadiq as mengatakan, "Tidak beriman orang yang tidak memiliki rasa malu."
Telah terbukti di sini, bahwa malu adalah benteng dalam diri manusia. Apabila benteng itu telah tertembus, maka musuh akan semakin mudah menghancurkan suatu bangunan (iman kita). Na’udzubillah.
Maka dari itu, ini adalah perwujudan dari pentingnya rasa malu. Betapa tidak bermoralnya diri kita apabila sudah tidak memiliki rasa malu. Kita dapat berbohong seenaknya, mencuri sesukanya, memberontak seenaknya, dan lain sebagainya.
Maka, kita harus melestarikan rasa malu. Beberapa cara melestarikan rasa malu ialah :
1. Setiap orang seharusnya menyadari apa yang mereka katakan dan lakukan. Sehingga kita dapat menghindari diri dari sikap yang tidak baik. (muhasabah)
2. Apabila melihat orang lain berkata atau berbuat tidak baik, seharusnya kita mengatakan kepadanya (mencoba memberittahu apa yang dia lakukan sehingga dia tidak mengulanginya lagi.
3. Apabila melihat orang merasa malu untuk berbuat atau berkata buruk, maka kita seharusnya memberitahu dia supaya mempertahankan perilakunya tersebut.
Ingatlah, timbulnya rasa malu itu bermula dari mata, jadi apabila kita untuk melihat yang buruk saja tidak malu, bagaimana dengan rasa malu kita? Apakah kita sudah tidak mempunyai benteng lagi?
Perlu diingat, ada saat saat di mana tidak tepat untuk kita merasa malu, yaitu :
1. Tidak boleh malu untuk bertanya atau menambah ilmu yang belum diketahui. Apalagi dalam masalah agama. Karena tidak ada malu dalam masalah agama.
2. Malu dalam sesuatu yang sifatnya lahiriyah dan tidak bisa diubah kecuali atas kuasa Allah, seperti fisik manusia, hitam, gemuk, jelek, rambut keriting, dll.
Kita patut merasa malu apabila kita :
1. Terhadap manusia : mengerjakan sesuatu yang buruk dan dilihat manusia lain. Sepantasnya kita malu. Karena kita telah melakukan keburukan yang mungkin saja orang lain akan menirunya. Astaghfirullah.
2. Terhadap Allah : apabila kita melakukan perbuatan buruk dan tidak ada orang lain yang mengetahui. Ingatlah, bahwa Allah maha melihat. Seluruh perbuatan kita, baik ataupun buruk, Allah selalu tahu.
3. Terhadap diri sendiri : apabila kita melakukan perbuatan buruk dan tidak ada orang lain yang mengetahui. Sepantasnya kita malu terhadap diri sendiri karena kita telah melakukan sesuatu yang buruk.
Kesimpulanya, rasa malu yang sudah kita miliki, jangan sampai terkikis atau hilang sama sekali dari diri kita. Karena malu adalah benteng dari perbuatan buruk. Kita harus sealu memelihara rasa malu.
English worksheet
1. Fable :
A Fable by Hadley R.
In the beginning of time, deep down in the depths of the ocean there lived a jellyfish named Mertle and a fish named Yunky. These two had been best friends as long as they could remember and they were always together.
Mertle was a little different from Yunky, not only because Mertle was much squishier than normal fish, but because his personality was a little freakish as well. You see, Mertle was constantly looking for approval from the other fish, even the ones that repeatedly mocked Yunky and hurt his feelings. Yunky was a little slow so he never really caught on to the teasing or the fact that Mertle still looked up to these bully fish.
One day these bully fish were teasing Yunky unmercifully, and he began to understand the cruelty of their jokes. Yunky looked up to Mertle with tears in his eyes and asked him if the two of them could just go play together away from all the other fish. Mertle looked at his poor innocent best friend that needed him now more than ever before, and then looked at the other fish. These fish were being and tough, and they always had girl fish flirting with them. Mertle looked Yunky straight in the eye, and told him to go home by himself, because he had new friends now and didn't need him.
Yunky swam home alone and left Mertle there with the other fish. The other fish, seeing that Mertle looked much different from the rest of them, moved on to him as their victim of verbal abuse. In the end proving that it never pays off to be spineless.
a. Title : A fable by Hadley R. (Mertle and Yunky)
b. Orientation :
i. Who : Mertle, the jellyfish; Yunky, the fish; other fish
ii. When : In the beginning of time
iii. Where : deep down in the depths of the ocean
c. Complication :
i. Both two (Mertle and Yunky) Always be bullied by the other fish
ii. Yunky couldn’t hold that bullying anymore, so he asked Mertle to leave them
d. Resolution
i. Mertle chose The other fish than his friend, Yunky
ii. Mertle was eaten by the other fish
2. Explanation text about share/ stock
In a company, the important thing is a financial capital. The company has many ways to get a financial capital, as big as a company needs.
I take one example, share/ stock. Share/ stock is a financial capital from other person or company. It calculates and be the main financial capital for the company.
The company must announces its notes for financial statement to public, so that person or other company can make a conclusion that he/ she/ it wants to buy that share/ stock or not.
When a person chooses to buy that share/ stock, he/ she can be called an “investor”. All the investor must do is answer, how much money that it (the investor) has, and how much share/ stock will it buy. The greater the share/ stock is bought by the investor, the greater financial capital does the company has.
After the investor finish the transaction between itself and the company, the investor will has a chance to own or to order that company.
In the end of the year, the company will hold a meeting. In that meeting, the company gives dividends to all of the investor. That’s how share/ stock produce money to the investor and the company. The investor can get dividend each year, and the company can has a big amount of financial capital to the directness of the company.
3. Discussion
Title : Keyboard Covers, Pro and Contra
We all know Laptop is sensitive, not only about its monitors, but also its keyboard. In preventing the risk of the broken keyboard, people used to use a keyboard covers. It usually made with silicon, it wrapped closely to peoples laptop keyboard.
It flexible, easy to be washed, covers peoples laptop keyboard from fungus, viruses, bacteria, dust, fallen water, fallen food, and so on. It has an important function, that’s the positive points.
But, other people used to blame keyboard covers, why? Because keyboard covers hold the heat over the keyboard. The heat from laptop that moves up to the keyboard to make an air circulation in laptop becomes useless. So, when the heat is held by the keyboard covers, it makes the laptop over heated.
To put the whole thing into a nutshell, I personally think that keyboard covers is important for the rest of our keyboard, we can use a trick for the heat problem. We can use a fan to reduce the heat. That’s the point.
4. Film review
Title : Dangerous Love
Genre : Drama, comedy, romance
Year : 2006
Director : I don’t know
Stars : 1. Jung Yunho
2. Yeongwoon Jaejoong
3. Choikang Changmin
4. Park Yoochun
5. Kim Junsu
6. Park Hee-bon
7. Kim Bo Mi
Dangerous love is an episode of Banjun Theater project TV show by South Korean Boy Band TVXQ for SBS in 2006. Total episode of the Banjun Theater is 7 episodes. Like the other Banjuns, each episode consists of a twist ending.
After a photo shot near forest, TVXQ (band, consists of Yunho, Jaejoong, Changmin, Yoochun, Junsu) took a rest in a villa. Junsu that really likes playing soccer, sneak out of the villa with Changmin. When Changmin was looking for the ball, suddenly he fell and fainted. Then Junsu did the same thing when he was looking for Changmin. They were rescued by Hee-bon, and they soon discovered that she will not let them go.
Back to the villa, the other members was worrying of Changmin and Junsu. Yoochun busy with his own mind that being extremely worried about them. After reading a romantic fan fiction about Jaejoong (himself) and Yunho, Jaejoong became anxious. Why Yunho being extremely nice to him.
This Drama teaches us to have a good behavior. It likes a real happen around us. Although there’s a scene that contains something intangible, but it still can make you enjoy it.
Dangerous Love is a great drama that Korean ever had.
5. Conversation about confession and blaming
Changmin : *walks around DBSK’s dormitory, suddenly sees DBSK’s leader hold a broken camera* is it Jae’s camera? Why does it break?
Yunho : Um… it’s… umm…
Changmin : *found out the clumsiness of the leader, so he about to bully the leader* HYUUUUUUUNNGGGG!!!!!! *uses Korean* COME HERE! THERE’S SOMETHING I WANT TO SHOW TO YOU!!!! *calls the members, Jaejoong, Yoochun, and Junsu*
Yunho : *does nothing except looks at the camera, imagines about what will happen*
Jaejoong : *pants* Y… yah! Yah! Choikang Changmin! What happ… *the words are stopped by the moves of Changmin’s finger*
Changmin : *points to the broken camera in Yunho’s hand*
Jaejoong : W… what? Y… YAH, JUNG YUNHO!!!
Yoochun : *arrives with Junsu*
Yunho : *bows* I’m sorry, Jaejoong, I broke your camera
Jaejoong : *sighs* It’s because you brought it to the forest, am I right?
Yunho : Yeah… I’m sorry
Yoochun : Hey! I told you before!
Yunho : I’m so…
Junsu : Yoochun is right! It was your own fault!
Changmin : *nods*
Yunho : O… ok, I admit I was wrong
Changmin : Aigoo *uses Korean*
Jaejoong : What did you expect? You should listen to us…
Changmin : *nods, points his finger to Yunho, shakes it in front of Yunho’s face*
Yunho : *puts his head down* you’re right, and I was wrong, I was the one to blame
All : WE TOLD YOU BUT YOU WOULDN’T LISTEN!
Yunho : *sobs* It was my own fault, I’m sorry I have made a mistake
Junsu : It’s no use crying over split milk
Changmin : *nods, shakes his head, makes a noisy voice from his mouth* ckckck
Yoochun : *nods, plays with his foot* tap tap tap
Yunho : *sobs*
Jaejoong : *sees Yunho*
Yunho : *sobs*
Jaejoong : *hugs Yunho and sighs* Perhaps that’ll teach you a lesson, Yunho. Don’t be a cry baby.
